In bible study this week, we learned that Jesus did nothing except in direct obedience to the Father and that he obeyed immediately. And in church we are learning about, “Being Jesus”.
It made me think, what if I tried this for one day? Like for one day I was 100% obedient to the Father in every moment? What if I really, fully tried to be Jesus for one whole day, in ONE aspect of my life: obedience. I tried it yesterday for only half a day and discovered something very precious.
It’s not about me.
What? I figured I knew that already because I’ve heard it a thousand times, and just heard it in a sermon but apparently it’s never fully sunk in because I still find myself constantly fighting for my own way, “dying to myself” but sighing a looong pitiful self-indulgent sigh as I do it.
Submit Yourselves to God
“4 What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? 2 You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God. 3 When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.”
Here’s the challenge I put out to my bible study group and now to you too if you like: to be like Jesus for one day.
He did nothing except in direct obedience to the Father.
He obeyed immediately.
He obeyed fully.
“If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have obeyed my Father’s commands and remain in his love.” (John 15:10)
Two girls in my study totally took me up on it. We are all going to pick one day next week and try it, then report back.
Here are the results from my half day: Right away, God gave me the insight that it’s not about me and it wasn’t in the crappy feeling type of way, it was in the everything sits right now kind of way. We were designed to be obedient to God. As soon as I got in line with that mentality, snap did I feel better – that sounds absolutely the opposite of what you’d think, but I’m telling you I was happy – like way happy. I was content.
It’s kinda like this picture of my oldest daughter. When we trust God fully, when we give him 100% obedience, we let go of the tight grip we have on control, he can then toss us up in the air and when we keep our eyes on him the whole time, it’s totally fun – we’re not afraid of getting dropped, we know he will catch us every time, leaving us to yell, “more! again!” Our act of total obedience displays full trust in the Father.
But we have to let go of control for him to give us a good toss.
As soon as I decided it wasn’t about me, not much bothered me (and I have three little kids guys, they can do A LOT to bother a person;-)
Later, when Davin and I went on a date, my focus wasn’t about getting what I needed (talking time, connection) it was on, “Okay, God, you know my needs, I trust you to meet them in whatever form you like.” Whaaat? I was again so chill. I think it might have been one of my favorite dates ever because I wasn’t trying to get what I needed out of it. Later that night, we went to look at cars and the car guy had met Davin the week prior. We all started talking and right away he starts sharing about his life and since I was so chill (trusting my Father) it didn’t bother me that it was a “date-night” and I normally wouldn’t want to be interrupted with other peoples lives, I instead enjoyed it. He ends up sharing that he was raised Jewish and his wife a Unitarian, but that because we were cool people and really chill, and he wanted to know what church we went to, he was interested. This guy was so rad! We of course raved about our church and the teaching and community and gave him the website and maybe he and his wife will come with us on a Saturday. How stoked was I after that? So stoked!
So, that was a half a day. I am going to strive towards this awesome feeling of, “it’s not about me” this whole week. I am guessing I’ll screw it up somewhere, but hopefully, because of Christ in me, the hope of glory, I’ll get right back to it. I seriously hope this insight and mentality stick with me, this is who I want to be. I like being like Jesus.
So, maybe you’ll try it? An entire day of obedience could look like almost anything: forgiving someone who’s wronged you, not holding a grudge, saying, “after you” in line, stopping your day to help a stranger, calling a friend you haven’t spoken to in awhile – only God really knows what your day might look like, but I can assure you from experience, it is WAY more fun to live in 100% obedience than 50% or even 20%.
God is not a half way God, and neither is obedience.
Good luck and I can’t wait to hear about the cool things happen when you try it out.
Let’s do this guys!!!
As always, thanks for reading.